Hose #2 ( bypass hose ) needs to go back to your water tank not the pump. That should correct the problem with the unloader. What type of switch do you have ie -flow or pressure that turns your burner on? Not sure why your thermal relief valve is located there, mine is on the outlet side of the burner coil. To double feed the pump you could have a elbow on the right side bottom of the pump and a tee on the other side. I would strongly recommend using a 1" suction line for this. The left, top side of the pump is the high pressure, this line goes to the unloader valve. On the unloader, I would have the bypass line run directly to the tank with a clear braided hose. The hose I use for this is rated for 800 psi.